15 Things To Do After You Get Engaged.

Congratulations, you're engaged! Now what do you do? Here are 15 things to do after you get engaged to help make your planning process a little bit easier. From sharing the news with your loved ones to picking out your wedding colors, we've got you covered. So take a look and get started on making your dream wedding a reality.

Call Your Family

After the excitement of getting engaged has settled, it's time to start making some big decisions - including who to call and share the good news with first. For many couples, family members are at the top of that list. Calling your parents or siblings to let them know you're getting married not only allows them to share in your joy, but it also sets the tone for their involvement in wedding planning. They can offer their thoughts on potential venues or help choose bridesmaids and groomsmen. 

Celebrate

Now that you've gotten engaged, it's time to start celebrating! Planning for the big day can be overwhelming, but cherishing this special moment with family and friends is an important step in the process. Whether it's a cozy dinner at your favorite restaurant or a festive engagement party, make sure to take some time to toast to your new engagement.

Get a Manicure 

As any bride-to-be knows, engagement season often brings a flurry of wedding planning decisions. From choosing a dress to selecting a venue, there are countless tasks to tackle in preparation for the big day. One important detail that should not be overlooked is getting a manicure. After all, it's likely that your ring finger will be the center of attention during this exciting time. Plus, who doesn't want their hands to look polished and beautiful in those all-important ring selfies?

 Engagement Photos

When it comes to capturing the joy and excitement of your engagement, what better way than with a shoot featuring just the two of you? Engagement photos are a wonderful opportunity to showcase the unique love story that led up to this moment, and you can have them customized for save-the-dates or even incorporate them into your wedding decor. Plus, these shoots provide a valuable chance for you and your partner to work with your photographer before the big day. 

Date Night

When you've just become engaged, it can be easy to get caught up in wedding planning. Guest lists, venues, and dresses can consume your thoughts and take over your conversations. However, it's important to make time for just the two of you as well. Plan a date night where wedding talk is off limits, and focus on each other instead. Whether it's enjoying a quiet dinner at home or going out for a night on the town, taking this time for yourselves will allow you to reconnect amidst all the wedding craziness. And who knows, maybe some ideas for the big day will even come up naturally during your special evening together. 

Set a Timeline 

After the excitement of getting engaged has settled, it's time to start thinking about wedding planning. Setting a timeline can help ensure that everything gets done on time and within budget. Start by setting a tentative date and venue, then plan out when to order invitations, hire vendors, and schedule events such as tastings and hair/makeup trials. It can also be helpful to make monthly or even weekly checklists for tasks such as sending RSVPs or assembling favors. 

Determine a Budget 

Now that you're engaged, it's time to start thinking about your wedding budget. Before making any big decisions, sit down with your fiance and each of your families to discuss what they are able and willing to contribute. Once you have an idea of the funds available, make a list of all the expenses you'll need to cover, from venue rentals to catering to attire. From there, prioritize and allocate funds accordingly, making adjustments as necessary. It's also important to remember that unexpected expenses may come up, so don't forget to set aside some wiggle room in your budget just in case. 

Gather Inspiration

When you first get engaged, it's natural to feel overwhelmed with ideas for your wedding. It can be difficult to decide on the perfect theme, color palette, venue, and all of the other tiny details. One way to gather inspiration is to comb through wedding magazines and Pinterest boards. Look for styles and elements that catch your eye, and start building a vision from there.

Interview Planners and Vendors 

Before you jump into booking vendors and finalizing dates, it's important to take the time to interview potential planners and vendors. Meeting with them in person or having a phone or video call can give you a better sense of their style and personality, ensuring that they align with your vision for the big day. 

Think About a Season 

When you've just gotten engaged, one of the first decisions you'll have to make is when to tie the knot. While summer and fall are the traditional choice for wedding season, there are many benefits to choosing a different time of year. Winter weddings can be beautiful and intimate, with the opportunity to incorporate cozy elements in your decor. Spring offers an array of colorful blooms for your floral arrangements, and an autumn wedding allows for stunning fall foliage as a backdrop. Whichever season you choose, make sure it aligns with your personal style and coordinates well with your desired venue availability.

Think About a Date 

Choosing a date for the wedding can be tricky; you want to pick a time that works for both of you and your families, while also ensuring that all your favorite vendors are available. Furthermore, certain months or times of year may carry significance for you as a couple, whether it be the anniversary of when you first met or a significant holiday. As you begin to narrow down potential dates, consider any logistical challenges like conflicting holidays or conflicts with school schedules. Once those are out of the way, let your hearts guide you in picking the perfect date to tie the knot and start your happily ever after.

Guest Lists 

Creating a guest list can be a daunting task, but it's important to remember that this is your wedding and you should invite anyone who brings joy and love into your life. Of course, it's necessary to consider budget and space limitations, but try not to feel pressure to invite distant relatives or coworkers out of obligation. Instead, focus on including those closest to you - family members, close friends, and maybe even a few surprise guests who have played an important role in your relationship.  

Venue Options

Now that you've said yes to the love of your life and locked in a date, it's time to start thinking about where you want to tie the knot. There are endless options for wedding venues, so it can be overwhelming trying to narrow down the choices. Do you envision a romantic beach ceremony or a fairytale ballroom reception? Maybe you want an outdoor rustic barn setting or an elegant modern hotel. Take some time to think about what type of atmosphere and aesthetic fits your shared vision for your big day. Once you have a general idea, start researching venues in your desired location and schedule tours to get a feel for each potential option. Keep an open mind and remember to take budget into consideration as well. With careful planning and some guidance from experienced wedding planners, you'll be able to find the perfect spot to begin your happily ever after.

Dance Lessons

As a newly engaged couple, you may find yourself dreaming about your first dance as husband and wife. While you may feel confident in your moves on the dance floor, why not make it extra special by taking dance lessons together? Not only will it be fun bonding time for the two of you, but it will also give you the chance to learn new dance styles and steps that will impress your wedding guests. Plus, even if one partner is hesitant at first, they may just surprise themselves with their natural rhythm and grace after a few lessons. And once the big day arrives, you'll have no doubts that you'll have an amazing first dance as husband and wife.

Finally, Relax 

Now that the proposal has been made and the ring is on your finger, it's time to take a deep breath and relax. The wedding planning process can be overwhelming, but remember to take your time and enjoy this special moment in your life. Celebrate with loved ones, savor the delicious cake tastings, and relish in choosing a dream dress. Don't get caught up in the small details - focus on what truly matters, like celebrating your love and committing to spend your future with your partner.